That’s me in the picture above, bundled beyond recognition, out for walk with my mom in our Pittsburgh neighborhood. I look a little like Randy in A Christmas Story.

Given that this Sunday is Mother’s Day, I’ve been digging around web and reading about the origins of the celebration. While there’s always a good reason to celebrate mothers, I always assumed it was another holiday fabricated by the greeting card industry but what I learned surprised me. The following excerpt is from a Wikipedia article on the subject, the links however are mine should you feel like doing additional reading.

The United States celebrates Mother’s Day on the second Sunday in May. In the United States, Mother’s Day was loosely inspired by the British day and was imported by social activist Julia Ward Howe after the American Civil War. However, it was intended as a call to unite women against war. In 1870, she wrote the Mother’s Day Proclamation as a call for peace and disarmament. Howe failed in her attempt to get formal recognition of a Mother’s Day for Peace. Her idea was influenced by Ann Jarvis, a young Appalachian homemaker who, starting in 1858, had attempted to improve sanitation through what she called Mothers’ Work Days. She organized women throughout the Civil War to work for better sanitary conditions for both sides, and in 1868 she began work to reconcile Union and Confederate neighbors.

When Jarvis died in 1907, her daughter, named Anna Jarvis, started the crusade to found a memorial day for women. The first such Mother’s Day was celebrated in Grafton, West Virginia, on 10 May 1908, in the church where the elder Ann Jarvis had taught Sunday School. Originally the Andrews Methodist Episcopal Church, this building is now the International Mother’s Day Shrine (a National Historic Landmark). From there, the custom caught on — spreading eventually to 45 states. The holiday was declared officially by some states beginning in 1912. In 1914 President Woodrow Wilson declared the first national Mother’s Day, as a day for American citizens to show the flag in honor of those mothers whose sons had died in war.

Considering the state of the world today, with wars effecting so many families around the globe, the history of Mother’s Day resonates all the more poignant. My mother lost a brother in the Korean War and saw my father narrowly avoid the Vietnam draft. It’s hard for me to fathom losing a sibling or spouse, let alone a son or daughter to war. Sending out love and prayers to mothers with children in the military seems appropriate today.

My mother would not have chosen to post the photo above - depite the fact that she looks adorable. Me on the other hand - cute but why didn’t someone tell me to sit up straight?! It’s a little hard to see, but look at me rockin’ that 70’s style with a groovy white belt and red houndstooth check polyester pants. Mom, I know there must be better pictures of us - and I’m hoping they’re in your albums, ’cause there not in mine. As I’m unable to be with her on Sunday I’m sending a virtual big kiss and bear hug. Love you Mom.

Now go call your mother!

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